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"Choice"

8/8/2014

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Like many others on their way into town the other day, we, too, were visually assaulted with a series of enormous, graphic posters lining the main street along the University.  The posters featured intentionally shocking images of aborted fetuses at various stages of development.

It seems that not everyone is as socially advanced in their thinking as those who organized the women's reproductive conference happening this week at UPEI.  "Abortion: The Unfinished Revolution", the first international reproductive justice conference, has brought together researchers from around the world to share ideas and information about the impact of women's right to choose whether and when to have children, and how to access the resources to parent those children effectively.  Charlottetown was chosen deliberately; the location is the capital city of Canada's only province that still puts up barriers for women who choose not to continue an unwanted pregnancy.  This lack of access to safe abortion care results in many women suffering failed abortions not unlike the self-mutilations performed with coat hangers in the 1960's and 70's.

Lack of safe abortion care can have greater societal impacts as well; in communities where women find themselves in unwanted pregnancy situations with lack of access to adequate resources,  an increase in child hunger and poverty in general is often the result.  Compelling evidence also exists to suggest a correlation between abortion and reduced crime rates. 
While few would argue that terminating a pregnancy is a preferred birth control method, and most agree that abortion is a difficult and gut wrenching choice regardless of the situation, it's clear that it is a necessary choice for some.

Not everyone agrees that this conference is a good thing, however... "Show the Truth", an anti-choice group from Canada and the US, brought members to line the streets and hand out graphic brochures to children and others in the community in an attempt to "shock-educate". It's been causing quite a stir, even among the more traditional, "pro life" Islanders, who are somewhat less than thrilled with their 8-year-olds being handed a flyer depicting an allegedly 10-week-old aborted fetus, and the local paper has been abuzz with stories about both sides. 

(Interestingly, there were no signs or brochures showing pictures of women bleeding out after a failed abortion among the large posters lining the highway into town.  Children living in poverty were also not shown.  And images of domestic abuse were missing, too.  Funny, that.)

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Right to Life PEI's spokesperson -- while supportive of Show the Truth's right to share their views -- was quick to point out that RTL had not invited them to the island, and was not made aware that they would be distributing the disturbing images to children (according to an article in the local paper here on Thursday, STT protesters had been going door-to-door handing out their pamphlets, and asking kids to "give them to your mom"!)
The anti-choice argument goes something like this:  "By supporting a woman's 'right to choose', we are supporting murder." 

Not only are these folks completely ignoring co-relevant statistics, but it's as though these people think that women choosing to terminate a pregnancy by default simultaneously want to "kill" their unborn children (assuming one defines an embryo or fetus as "child" or as being "alive".)  Yet even my 10-year-old son can articulate that the necessity of one choice does not automatically imply that the other outcome or inevitable "side effect" is desired.  In the overwhelming majority of cases, it's not!

"Neither side is good, Mom", noted Alex (my son), and went on to lament that there was currently no way to have simultaneous choice for women and ability for baby (he defines the cluster of growing cells inside a uterus to be a "baby" as soon as it is known about) to live. 

"I wish there was a way that the baby could survive by living in an incubator until it could be adopted", he said to me in the car on the way home yesterday, agreeing that not all women who find themselves in an unwanted pregnancy situation have jobs or life circumstances that allow them the luxury of carrying that unwanted pregnancy to term until the baby can be adopted out.
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Ironically, while the conference's protesters are carting graphic posters of aborted fetuses about the province, thousands of volunteers and paid employees toil daily at women's shelters, food banks and with other social service agencies across our fine country, attempting to mitigate the mess that transpires when children are born to women who lack the power or the resources to adequately care for them.

In an ideal world, where women and men are valued equally, and where individual members of society come together to raise up our children in a meaningful, practical, hands-on, cooperative manner, there wouldn't be a need for a woman to make such an awful choice, ever. 

But we don't live in such a world.  We live in the REAL world, where rather than helping fight injustice for those already living in this often miserable world, protesters instead wave giant, one-sided, graphic images in the faces of those passing by, and intimidating already-traumatized women trying to make the best choice they can in an already-horrific personal situation.

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In such a world, you're darned right women should have ready access to safe abortion and non-judgmental reproductive care. 

And the choice of whether or not to avail herself of such services belongs solely to the woman. Case closed.


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2 Comments
kerry moore
8/15/2014 12:39:22 am

Interesting article . Originally I thought the idea of distributing graphic photos of aborted children by some " pro life " was in bad taste and a poor idea . Your article has me reconsidering that view . Apparently it helped you and others come to conclusion that abortion is a " bad choice " . Your efforts to rationalize tha taking of an innocent life are equally as interesting . For example, the last graphic of your article shows a round, planet shaped object, presumably a developing child. I invite you to go on line at your leisure and bring up video of what a developing child actually looks like at 8, or 10 or 12 weeks gestation and see if it resembles what you have portrayed . Go ahead , Then ask yourself if you have accurately represented the truth . And the tag on the graphic is curious as well , suggesting that until pro life people solve world hunger they have no right to be concerned about taking a child's life in the womb. Really ? Is the logic supposed to be that abortion is a better way for children to die than hunger or that abortion will solve world hunger ? Either way your logic is missing a lot of links to reality .Justifying the taking of a life to solve a social problem ( which your article cannot prove that abortion does, is a morally bankrupt idea . By the way " reproductive choice " should mean the right to get pregnant or not, not,the right to take a life .

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Vera
8/15/2014 01:48:07 am

Hi, Kerry, thanks for taking the time to read and comment on my blog post.

I would like to clarify a few points, as I can see from reading your comment that I may have miscommunicated a few of my thoughts.

Please know that it was not the graphic images distributed by the group protesting the conference that "converted" or "convinced" me regarding the moral dilemma surrounding abortion. Being a prenatal course provider for families expecting multiples, I am quite familiar with what the average zygote, embryo and fetus at different stages of development look like. Further, I have been well aware of the ethical conundrum abortion presents for several decades. (Contributing factors for me included a rather graphic scientific exhibit both in Berlin, and at the Toronto science center which I attended some years ago. Ironically, many pro-life groups were strongly opposed to both of these exhibits!)

Yes, in my opinion, abortion is -- as you point out in your comment -- "a bad choice" (as an aside, I have friends who disagree with me, arguing that there is nothing inherently "bad" about abortion, regardless of how many fingers and toes the fetus has; as it is not legally a human until birth, they argue, there is no crime being committed. Some go further, arguing that since even a newborn does not have enough life schema to worry about being killed, therefore in some instances, baby killing with the consent of all adults in the immediate circle of that child's love and care is also not ethically wrong; you'll no doubt be please to know that I disagree with that particular perspective. But I digress.) So, you and I agree that abortion is inherently "bad", as does my 10-year-old son. Where we differ, however, seems to be in our opinion about access: My son and I further agree that LACK of access to safe, legal abortion for women is also bad, on the grounds that as an oppressed group, women are further penalised and their lives potentially endangered without such access.

One then has two necessarily "bad" options to choose from.

(Your comment about what "reproductive choice" *should* mean demonstrates your lack of understanding about the existing state of affairs in the world, Kerry. While I envy you your apparently benign relationship with men, you need to know that the rights of women to choose when and if to get pregnant are trampled on everywhere, all the time, yes even here in Canada. It's true that a wide array of birth control exists. And yet, from abstinence to condoms, women are constantly pressured by society, by their partners and by their own internalized misogyny to not avail themselves of said birth control. Therefore, because they are often "made pregnant" by the men who do not honour their reproductive rights, women need to have access to safe, legal abortion. A woman who -- recognizing the very seriousness of bringing a life into the world in circumstances that would not only not be beneficial to that life, but in fact, cause pain and suffering to that life -- makes her brave choice to abort a pregnancy, should be supported, especially by her sisters!)

I'm not suggesting -- as you imply in your comment -- that abortion "solves social problems", but rather that -- in an imperfect world -- lack of access to safe, legal abortion *creates* social problems.

When we solve all the world's ills, and live in a perfect utopia, Kerry, I will be right there with you on your fight to save all human life. In the meantime, I would ask you to consider reality: The quandary of choosing between two bad options is a tragedy, no doubt. But the tragedy of women being chastised and abused for their choices -- by other women, no less! -- is a greater tragedy by far.

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